Friday, 9 November 2007

London - The First Few Weeks!







We are all settling into life in West London.




Big events in the first few weeks have included such milestones as Maya's Fifth Birthday and her first day at her new school (though thankfully for her not on the same day!); and visits to Windsor, The Natural History Museum (now forever known as 'The dinosaur Museum'), Hamley's ('Six Floors of Toys!') and the Princess Diana Memorial Playground in Hyde Park.


Final Thoughts on Montlaur, France

Well, the Flett's have had the most incredible six months living in this Petite Village in the South of France. It is now time to say Au revoir...and there are many things here that will be sadly missed....

I will miss the charm, seclusion and simplicity of this small village of less than 600 people in France.

I will miss the harsh, rocky dry landscape that looks that it should belong closer to Jerusalem than Toulouse.

I will miss the endless fields of vines, and the privilege I have had to watch them throughout all seasons, finally to witness their leaves turn crimson and the harvest of the fruit.

I will miss the soft light of the late afternoon that changes from harsh and turns everything pastel.

I will miss living in a town that only has a general store, a bakery, a butcher,a pharmacy and a hairdresser's, and one frenchman that speaks english.

I will miss the closeness of neighbours, both in proximity and community spirit, and the acknowledgement received on encounter with a look in the eye and a friendly "Bonjour".

I will miss the loud speakers in the town that plays wartime tunes, and the Marseillaise (although never a complete song) to signal a public annoucement- that I can never understand.

I will miss the church bells, that have been my constant companion and toll every hour and half hour...with a concerto at 7am and 7pm

I will miss the Gorges Du Congoust that winds between the towns, it's beautiful river and scenery and the death defying drive required through this.

I will miss swimming in the rivers, warm and clean enough to indulge.

I will miss Carcassonne Castle, it's walls and turrets always provoking a sigh of delight, and a sight I will never tire off.

I will miss the diversity of landscapes, from dry rocky Corbieres, to alpine Montsegur, to the coast of Narbonne.

I wil miss the fascinating history of this region. The Cathars, the Grail, the War.

I will miss the wonderful people of Montlaur. Our elderly neighbour Monsieur Bazaga, who endeared himself to Maya and Will.
Vivianne who spoilt them with treats and brought me freshly grown vegetables, The Mayor, who always included us in events and helped whenever needed. Phillipe the grocer, who tested and teased my french and who I added hilarity to his day ( even on departure thanking him and his "husband" ..ooops), Precilla the hairdresser, the school, and our dear vintner Christain who made Montlaur all the more special teaching us it's history and the mysteries of winemaking and sharing the profits of his craft with us.

I will miss our newly made English friends, Martin, Sally, and my tutor Una, our nextdoor neighbours Sarah and Mike...who helped us learn the region, shared the knowledge they had and enthusiastically accepted tales of our own discoveries.

I will miss the excitement of Vide Greniers, the possibilities of forgotten treasures and exceptional bargains, as well as the villages these markets took us to that may otherwise remained unexplored.

I will miss the French language, and my slowly progressing comprehension and confidence.

To all our friends who made huge efforts and great expense to share our adventure. Sharing the experience made it all the more special for us. We will not leave France unchanged and I do not think anyone who left here, left quite the same, but was richer in someway for the time shared .

To Debbie and Terry and the fateful events that led us to them and to Montlaur, and who opened their beloved and charming house to us.



I Will Not miss the dog pooh that is everywhere here...not our girls.................

I Will Not miss the twenty + scorpions in our house we terminated, the scitterish large centipede like bugs with huge feelers ( eeeeek!), the spider in the bathroon the size of my hand.....


If you would like to see a very entertaining slideshow of Montlaur that my nextdoor neighboor created ( all those who have visited will totally GET this)
please visit this link...hysterical.....there are two to choose from ..Montlaur: The Old days ..is my favourite

http://www.slide.com/r/WIPzanUHwz_q5o1o_0GhG4t3N7PWh4U6?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original


Lots of love Denise

And So To London!










Well the adventure and journey continues....................

The house in Montlaur was quickly and efficently packed and cleaned ...we have become well versed at this...and the blanket of dull, cold grey over Montlaur helped with the impending farewells. There were many of these, along with the exchange of gifts and contact numbers. Our last evening was spent with our nextdoor neighbours and was very pleasant and sadly a little late to discover all that we had in common.

We packed the people mover (thanks Suzie and Dezza for the Postie Plus bags)...and although I have never prided myself on mathematical ability, I was surprised as to how accurate my calculation of possession + French purchases had so exactly equated to the volume available. In fact, I do not think I could have fitted a single orange into the van once packed and family boarded.

We had the van serviced the day before by our esteemed local mechanic, Mr Foucher, who had repaired with French ingenuity our smoking vehicle on arrival to Montlaur. The van has hummed ever since, but opening the hood does have some similarity to opening an old box of 'mechano'. For us that was of little concern, we were more interested in reliability than methodology...and had a feeling of regained confidence after visiting him again.

Our planned journey from the South of France, was a little unusual, but did take in two fascinating and remote places that I had always wished to visit, however, their geographical situations always making this unfeasible. Lourdes and the Guggenheim in Bilbao. To achieve this we planned to cross the Pyrenees, visit one of France's most Southern towns Lourdes. Continue West to Spain, further west to Bilbao, check out the Guggenheim, then further west to the city of Santander where we would catch the carferry to Plymouth in Southern England. We had 28 hours to do this.

We were off! Sadly the drizzle turned to Auckland-like rain, and our hopes of the panorama of the Pyrennees dashed. It took about 3 hours to reach the alpine town of Lourdes, and entered through a plethora of hotels - it seems that Lourdes is to the mountains as Las Vegas is to the desert.

It is difficult not to make harsh judgements of this spot when driving past rows and rows of religious merchandising shops'. We found a carpark, a miracle in itself, and I am sure the last in town, from here it was a simple walk down to the river, grotto, and cathedral. I was totally stunned and awed by what I witnessed here. The river frontage was amassed by rows and rows of specially designed weather proof wheelchairs and stretchers, the occupants of various ages and ailments patiently waiting their entry to the pools of holy water and blessings. The procession of traditionally clad nurses and their charges did not stop but seemed to continue without respite.

We were assisted by very helpful custodians with the pushchair to the grotto and touched the grotto walls, smoothed by the millions of hands that had done this before us. Because of the rain, it did seem that the walls were weeping this holy elixir from the vision of the Madonna statue above us, it was hard not to be accepting of all things possible at this spot.

After our picnic lunch visited the cathedral above the grotto. Magnificent. My passion for Byzantine style mosaics overwhemingly satisfied by the series of asps covered in detailed pictures using this technique. My senses now fully overloaded. Overall, our impression of the place was not one of desperation or tackiness but more of a collective human connection to something greater than ourselves. Although not a Catholic I felt I had been humanly involved in this experience. It was pouring with rain by now and we raced back to the car all soaked through, but no one complaining as our small sufferings seemed inconsequentual to what we had just witnessed.

It was about another 5 hours to Bilbao, and although all damp and crowded, the kids were amazing and uncomplaining. John and I both wearied from months of traveling, were not our normal, efficient and decisive selves, and found it difficult this time to action a hotel for the night. Bilbao, as I had already been informed is a large dirty city, without much to offer but the Guggenheim...I would have to agree with this. We headed out of the city, towards the coast and after a quick visit to a seaside town on the basque coast, (which offered very little), stopped at a restaurant/ B&B, on a road in the middle of nowhere in the countryside. It was late, they could take us, and for the first time ever, dinner, breakfast and accomodation came way under budget.

The next morning headed straight for the Guggenheim. After yesterday, seeing what would epitomise human spirituality, today took in the equivalent to human culture.
Frank Gehry's work has captivated me for years so I was very excited to visit a great piece of his architecture. The Guggenheim was all lines and fluidity covered in titantium half a millimeter thick.
I may not be an engineer or an architect, but, there is something missing in this Gehry design and should I ever meet Frank Gehry I would have to offer him some advice....."Hey Frank...love the Guggenheim...we all love it...we all want to see it....but there is something lacking...it's called a CARPARK....you know, a wide open space, sometimes underground, sometimes revenue generating, where people wishing to see an attraction can leave their cars"
Enough said................................

Time was becoming tight and it was a dash to Santander...much prettier than Bilbao, filled the car with petrol (to avoid those UK prices) and boarded the Pont Aven- our ship that would deliver us to England. This is a fantastic way to travel...especially with kids, a dog and an overflowing car. We had our own little cabin, complete with ensuite. There are restaurants, theatres, soft play areas, entertainment stewards for the kids and even a swimming pool....hung out by the pool in the afternoon and made the most of all these things. Kids had a great time, and exhausted crashed early to our bunks. The weather calm, sea smooth and the gentle pitch and roll reminescent of those waterbed years of the 90's.

Next morning picked up Piper from the ships kennels she had had to overnight in...Not Happy!, and without event passed customs, all, including the dog accepted...phew!
We had arrived and headed non-stop to London.

John had done a terrific job finding our new home in Ealing London....we could want no more. House lovely, around the corner from a huge park, with playgrounds, and a playgroup area. There is a library around the corner, cafes and restaurants everywhere, and of course my lifelong friend Anna is a 5 minute walk away.

Trading a small French village for one of the worlds largest cities will take some adjustment. I have exchanged rows of vines for rows of houses, French cuisine for every taste and flavour the world can offer, a village for 10 million people, tolling bells for Heathrow's approach, museums, theatres, shops, historical sites for simplicity. But we are all ready now for the excitment and opportunities offered.

I must say a very special thank you to my husband, who endured fatigue, 3 train rides and Ryan Air to commute to and from London, imposing on strangers (now friends) for London accommodation ( thanks for making this possible), time away from his family, endless visitors, and budget blow outs for yet another one of his wife's crazy ideas.............thank you, thank you, thank you it was marvelous.

I ...I mean we...have many more adventures and goals planned whilst in London....

Thanks for all the great feedback on our tales, and will give you all a break now from our summer adventures and look forward to hearing yours.